
This is understandable, and at times, humanly necessary. Children who are too trusting could easily find themselves in trouble, and yet dear ones, as adults you can discern without judgment, love without liking, and choose to focus on the light within an individual even if you choose to walk away. You will live a far happier and more powerful life if you strive to do so.
There is great confusion between judgment and discernment. We have said this before, but “Judgment says ‘No right to be.’ Discernment says, ‘Not right for me.'” So when someone is acting in a way that you do not agree with, by all means we say, discern! Decide who and what belongs in your life. Get away from the offensive individual as soon as you can, or if you can’t get away, at least make a decision to stay in your own positive energy rather than succumbing to the ill-behaved individual’s desire for company in their misery. Ignore them, send light, work to remember that even within this wounded or unconscious soul there is a spark of divinity.