James Gilliland – As soon as we judge we are coming from ego. If we wait, observe and look at things with a fresh mind, what they call the Buddha mind we can see a different picture other than what is presented to us. What is unfolding is like a multifaceted crystal, different experiences, different perceptions.
I was told once that imagination is real on the level of imagination so who is right, who is wrong, just what is real? Most importantly, why does it matter to you? If I side with one how can I help the other? If we are being triggered there is something we need to look at.