Hilde Larsen – Where we live, what we call home, is the most visual part of our daily environment. But even so (as with every other aspect of your life, physical or mental) we’re able to hide and shuffle away some nasty clutter, so the outward appearance might not be a true indicator of neatness. You might brush any imperfection under the carpet, so to speak, so that the living room and the front yard can absolutely look bright and shiny while your closets and attic are very far from it.
I am sure we have all done that, and some are worse than others.
We tend to wear masks to appear in a certain way as we try to live up to an unrealistic and completely false image — — another stressful part of our programming. Driven by not feeling good enough or not feeling loved, we keep trying to appear how we perceive success looks like (be it success with our work, our home, our body, or our behavior.) Continue reading