The Shadow’s Secret Role in Your Personal Growth Journey

The Shadow – the test of spiritual honesty

The Shadow – the test of spiritual honestyFrank M. Wanderer – The Shadow is the inner space where everything ends up that did not fit into the image we formed about ourselves. In childhood, and later through social adaptation, we learn what is “allowed” to be felt, thought, and expressed in the social environment into which we are born—and what is not. What is unacceptable is hidden away in the unconscious. This is how the Shadow is formed.

It is important to understand: the Shadow is not a moral category. It is neither good nor bad. It is not dark because it is destructive, but because it was not permitted to consciousness. That is why anger and envy end up there just as much as healthy aggression, vitality, passion, creativity, and sexuality. The Shadow therefore carries not only pain, but life energy as well. Continue reading

Healing Shame: Embrace Your Shadow Self with Love

Daniel Scranton – “We are The Creators. We are 12th-dimensional collective of nonphysical beings and we are here to help.

We know that you all have aspects of yourselves that you feel ashamed of, and we want you all to recognize that you carry those aspects of yourselves with you because you came into this life with a desire to explore certain themes and to heal certain aspects of your human self. So perhaps as a child you stole some candy, and you think of that now as an adult, and you feel ashamed.

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Embrace the Shadow Self

shadow selfWes Annac – What should you do when you experience a spiritual awakening in which you realize reality is an illusion, everything is connected, and you’re slowly evolving on a mental, physical, and spiritual level? It’s lot to take in, and what you do afterward is crucial.

You have a few options; some that will take you higher and some that will stall your spiritual growth indefinitely. You can, for example, start behaving in a way you assume is more “enlightened”. You can try to be positive every second of every day in hopes that your forced good mood keeps you in harmony.

You can go straight to social media, proclaiming to the world that you’re #woke and telling everyone to just stay positive (despite the very real hardships people go through every day). This will work for a while. You’ll feel like a #woke warrior with a high vibe and an unshakable spirit.

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How To Confront Parts Of Yourself You Are Ready To Face

“You don’t have to like something in order to love and accept it. It will go a long way for us to see everything happening in the world as a part of us.” L Jane

What is the Shadow Self?

MoonTreeShadowThe shadow self refers to parts or aspects of ourselves we hide from because we deem them unacceptable, ugly, unwanted, bad, or undesirable.  These are usually natural and valid parts of ourselves that because of social conditioning and internalized beliefs about what is “acceptable” or how we should be, we try to hide, mask or bury them deep in the subconscious mind.  There, they are like our shadow:  vague, mysterious, present in the subtle background or periphery of our conscious experience. These shadow aspects want to be acknowledged, however, and knock from our unconscious at the door to the conscious mind through dreams, emotional reaction, choices and other behaviours.

These shadows of ourselves are often represented in mythologies, tarot, esoteric and spiritual teachings as the moon, since the moon rules during the night when things are hidden, mysterious and unclear.  Emergency rooms and policy stations are said to be busiest on a full moon, revealing the unconscious influence this planetary body may have on our shadowy aspects.

Nature of the Shadow Self

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