Aletheia Luna – Whether consciously or unconsciously, whether at home, at work, among strangers, or among friends, we have all engaged in games that are sometimes beneficial and useful, and other times detrimental to our health and the well-being of others.
Psychological games are often rewarding to one party and harmful to the other, creating exhausting and messy dynamics in every kind of relationship. Sometimes we are so deeply ingrained in the cat-and-mouse games that define our relationships that we aren’t even aware of what is happening.
So why do people play games in relationships? And how can you identify whether you are instigating the games, or serving as the prey of them? (Or both?)
Exploring Psychological Theatrics
Why do people play games in relationships? The answer is quite simple: They get something out of it. Continue reading
‘Health’ and ‘diet’ have become social buzzwords due to rising concerns over the number of individuals considered overweight or obese. This is primarily because obesity creates health risks that negatively impact one’s way of life. It can impact our ability to breathe easily and prevent us from undertaking any form of strenuous outdoor activity. That’s why it’s so important to consider changing daily routines and opting for a healthier lifestyle.
There are at least four unique ways to participate in the game of life. Some people live their lives in the stands, eating their hotdogs, watching the game go by. They believe that life is a spectator sport, and thus they do the minimum to survive. The second category is players who sit on the sideline bench, hoping and believing that one day they will get to really play in the game. Yet, their shoes are still untied, and they are totally unprepared to jump on the field. The third group is composed of the players who are in action on the playing field, yet function like robots, unconsciously carrying out their coaches’ orders and commands. They follow all the rules of the game, and do exactly what they are told to do. Their lives are one big “should” waiting to implode.