Jennifer Hoffman – Have you ever had your heart broken, been disappointed, or felt rejected by someone? The problem is not that you weren’t worthy of that situation or person, but that there was no alignment between them and the outcomes you wanted to create with your intention. And there was not enough energy in the relationship connection to maintain it.
It may have felt like it in the beginning (everything looks rosy and possible when we are in love) but energies between people and within relationships do change over time and we need to be aware of those changes and make appropriate course corrections.
While we assume every relationship is ‘supposed’ to last forever, many are learning opportunities that teach us lessons in choosing, alignment, empowerment, discernment, and letting go.
When we set expectations we pull the energy ahead of its potential and then attempt to hold everything together while we try to make everything fit and work. We are trying to create congruence and harmony by making the energy fit (what I call ‘false congruence’) instead of allowing trust and faith to guide the energy to fit. Continue reading