Brenda Hoffman – Perhaps you feel unsure of your actions and reactions. Similar to how you felt when you were learning to maneuver your bicycle without training wheels.

Such is so because you are emotionally crossing into new territory. A land of heeding your needs and hopes instead of those of others. At the same time, others are in a similar process. So it feels – and rightly so – as if two-year-olds reign in your world.

Of course, stating it in that fashion makes you laugh, for you can see how ludicrous your emotional shifts have become. Your friends, relatives, co-workers, and employers are reacting similarly, allowing for an all-out mixture of me, me, me. Continue reading →