Message for September 2021

silenceSarah-Jane Grace – I’ve long been a seeker of silence. Seeking out opportunities to embrace the silent moments and to immerse myself in the stillness that silence can bring. We live in a busy, noisy, distraction fuelled world which can make it so hard to even notice the silence, but it’s always there. It’s often the case that we need to pause and breathe deeply in order to re-connect, but it’s important to realize that silence never leaves us, it’s usually a case that we shut ourselves off from the silence.

Silence isn’t just the absence of sound, far from it. Silence is the stillness that can be found in between moments and in those gaps between the in breath and the out breath, at the point where we are doing neither one nor the other. Silence is the space where true wisdom can be found, it can bring us insight and a deeper sense of understanding as to why things are the way they are. We may not find all the answers in silence, but we can find a stronger sense of acceptance to the inherently unknowable nature of life. Continue reading

Is Your Marriage Hindering Your Personal Growth and Peace of Mind?

Personal Growth In order to grow as a person and a professional, peace of mind is extremely important. If a marriage is hindering your peace of mind, it’s pulling your life down, and this could just as well be true for your partner as well. Now, the real question is, how is someone supposed to know when something is seriously wrong with their marriage?

Why Early Fights are a Cause for Worry

It is common to mistake frequent fights during the early stages of a marriage as a sign that the couple is going through a simple period of adjustment. This is a mistake because couples are almost always the most accommodating towards each other right after they get married. Continue reading